咎由自取
人真係一種有自毀傾向既生物。明知不可為而為之。
其實每個人都有每個人既選擇。好與唔好都係自己揀既，當然亦要承受附帶既後果。
要求別人之時，試問究竟自己又能否做到。做人總不能對別人嚴坷，對自己寬鬆吧。
可以用千百個理由為自己開脫，但這些藉口到頭來只係用來騙自己。
做個有擔當的人，真的這麼難？！
人真係一種有自毀傾向既生物。明知不可為而為之。
其實每個人都有每個人既選擇。好與唔好都係自己揀既，當然亦要承受附帶既後果。
要求別人之時，試問究竟自己又能否做到。做人總不能對別人嚴坷，對自己寬鬆吧。
可以用千百個理由為自己開脫，但這些藉口到頭來只係用來騙自己。
做個有擔當的人，真的這麼難？！
7 Comments:
What is this all about??? Puzzling puzzling.....
By
Connie, at 11:43 午後
Quite disappointed on a friend's attitude. That's why.
By
Gloria, at 12:11 午前
Is this the same friend that you mentioned a while ago? Same incident? Hardly seen you being bothered for so long bor....
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Connie, at 12:19 午前
dim ah...what happen? There are people like that in this world, but cuz people are selfish and liked to make excuses for that. What did Joe said..."選你所愛 愛你所選"...but not many ppl can carry this out.
By
Salad, at 12:35 午前
Well, not directly concern me la. But as a friend, can't always support if it is not right according to your own judgement.
Maybe I am a very judgemental kind of person.
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Gloria, at 12:39 午前
Hope this incident won't bother you for too long la.
I guess I'll be "angry" as you do in the past if I met things that I think is not "right". But now, I can better "accept" these "wrong" behaviours.
See it from another point of view, these people do exist and actually they are the majority. They can't be changed (as everyone else), so, we have to adjust (not change) to "accomodate" them (if they exist in the workplace la, for friends, we can choose ma).
That's what I've learned in the past few months. And this is the only thing I can do at work right now as you know.
Hope this helps a bit la.
By
Annie, at 9:49 午後
我都係咁諗，如果兩個人既價值觀真係咁唔同，或者佢既行為真係超出我接受範圍，我都應該有選擇朋友既自由。
By
Gloria, at 9:55 午後
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