果然"鸚鵡"不負眾望
5年來久違既9號風球。
尋晚天文台仲話早上未必掛8號，結果唔夠8點即反口；大家都無啦啦多個長週末。
悶左成日，訓到自己都頂唔順，煲劇套"美味關係"又麻麻地(但睇左幾集放棄有點那個)。下午襯5點多風眼略過香港，比較風平浪靜之際，閃落去照常營業既"吉野家"黎個細牛肉飯(本應今晚同Connie去食上海私房菜架.......嗚嗚......)
想去梁師奶度晚飯，都被佢拒絕，就算有地鐵直達都怕樓下橫風橫雨危險喎。
梁師奶今日非常煩惱，因為外公若情況穩定，醫院好快就discharge佢出院。但出院後安排至係麻煩既開端：舅父住既house，若要外公上落樓梯，日間留佢一個人獨守空屋，實在好唔妥；但舅父又堅持唔想外公搬去外婆阿姨既apartment，或老人院。日間請鐘點佢又唔想.....總之佢地有排爭吵，梁師奶隔住半個地球只有乾著急。(但飛過去又可以做d乜？)
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Sounds very complicated. Your grandpa cannot live in the same household with your grandma?? Why did they get married in the 1st place....feel sorry for your uncle and aunt...got stuck in the middle...
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Connie, at 10:14 午後
佢地本來全部都同舅父一家住響house度，係阿姨後來買左appartment(即我今年去加拿大住，對住Woodside Square)，阿姨同外婆搬上樓，但得兩間房外公就唔想搬。加上佢以往夏天喜歡響後園種東瓜。
搬上樓，起碼朝早唔會得佢一個，有事都無人知；但要去洗手間，如果無力，外婆80歲都逗佢唔起。
安救命鐘，要響屋外放鎖匙比人入屋，舅父又唔肯。
都幾頭痕架。
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Gloria, at 2:35 午前
I see I see.....but 唔安救命鐘又係dangerous wor! 係幾頭痕...probably have to hire a part-time or 安救命鐘, he should not be left alone now.
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Connie, at 3:01 午前
而且住house間房響樓上，心臟唔好爬上爬落都唔係好得。但你叫佢終日樓響房內唔落樓下，連自己煮d野都唔得，有乜quality of life可言？
一係搵鐘點(唔知加拿大易唔易)；住老人院都幾賤架，到時可能幾日先見到親人(落晒大雪都無可能日日去)，人生最後幾年係咁，又好似講唔過去。
我都明舅父家真堅持明知朝早無人照顧，都唔想個老豆去老人院既心態既。
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Gloria, at 3:20 午前
About 搵鐘點, you can ask Martina. I think she had one before.
加拿大住老人院唔算好賤架la. (better than HK d 老人院好多). 自己人生最後幾年都probably係咁 (We have no kids. When we come to that stage, we will end up in 老人院架la!)
I have a friend who is a Geriatric Dr in Toronto. Do you want me to give her a call and ask for some advice?
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Connie, at 11:56 午前
睇埋下個禮拜，佢地最後想點先算啦。
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Gloria, at 3:34 午後
Let me know if you want me to contact my friend la! She may know more about geriatric care in Toronto.
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Connie, at 6:18 午後
唔好俾老人家住2樓呀!一個人o係屋企有乜事，佢自己心急起上o黎會跌倒o架。樓下有無房換俾佢？
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Christina, at 6:24 午後
奶奶，加拿大d屋，睡房通通在二樓，地下係客飯廳，地牢就係洗衫房同埋偏廳。
當然，地下房張床無話唔得，不過會幾凍囉。
家陣佢地好似考慮緊療養院，可能真係最好既option。
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Gloria, at 10:27 午後
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