Who Moved My Cheese?

一個朋友剛同認識左20年既老公簽字離婚，猛問點解一個人可以變成咁？一段20年既感情點解會走到唔簽字唔得既地步？

其實唔只係別人，自己每日都在轉變中；只不過我地只會望見其他人既問題，而好少會自我反省。

唔好話20年，13年前初返黎香港既我，同而家既我，基本上都係兩個人。以前我會為一段失去既感情而難過，而家只會悶悶不樂三數日，生活如常。環境同經歷會改變我地既思維；而家諗番當年既自己可能好傻，但當年有限既年資只會做出當年既選擇。所以發生左既野，只會變成歷史；我地亦都會從自己既錯誤中有所得著。

自問係一個向前望既人。當有事情發生時，我地應該問自己：

"Given this situation, what options do I have? What is my best option?"

而唔係問點解。因為無論係乜野原因，事實已經演變至此，作為一個成年人，我地應該學會Let Go and Move On。

我唔係冷血，而且記性絕對好過好多人。但記得一段過去既事，同沉溺過去係兩回事。

呢本書雖然係講change management in workplace，我亦都未正式讀過，但佢當中都有一套做人既哲學：

Change is not something to be feared but rather to be accepted and put to good use. Everyone is in competition and only those who adapt to the situations will be able to gain the cheese in the end.

Mice, being simple minded and not very smart, do not get hung up emotionally when things work against them, they just move on. Humanity has its flaws. Emotion is one of them.

Change is a way of life. I have accepted that I will never get comfortable. For each time I do, the situation changes. Change can be a blessing or a curse, depending on your perspective. The message of the book is that all can come to see it as a blessing.