La Vie Avec Amusement

土曜日, 10月 21, 2006

無常

如果只剩下4星期....

生命中所有既野都會突然變得好重要:未完成既事情,未兌現既承諾,一直想去而未去既地方。

以為自己仍然有時間,以為會有好多個“日後”,結果原來剩下既時間咁少,想做既野仲有咁多。

講既唔係仔仔「深情密碼」既情節,而係早兩日剛由溫哥華返黎醫病既五嬸

末期肺癌。已經連CT Scan都唔須要照,化療亦都唔會做。個肺抽左兩公升血水出黎,比佢返屋企home leave;下星期返黎再要抽多一litre。加拿大既醫生話,大概只有4星期;要好樂觀至會有機會挨到半年。

一個月前,佢仲係一個沒事人一樣,約左梁師奶去「聘珍樓」飲茶......

梁師奶今朝去左港安醫院探五嬸,佢本人只係默默流眼淚,尚算平靜。反而我堂大佬喊到出唔到聲.....其實佢兩年內經歷老婆同自己阿媽相繼患癌,望住親人受苦而自己無論有幾多錢一d都幫唔到,我好明白佢要再次go through呢段艱難日子既感受。

想做既野,真係唔好等。

活在當下,共勉之。

11 Comments:

  • your cousin lost his wife and now his mom...omg~~~~

    ......

    By Blogger Salad, at 12:12 午前  

  • 生死有命,富貴由天...
    只有睇開d

    By Blogger nonoprincess, at 12:56 午前  

  • 有o的o野確係有幾多錢都買唔到o架!珍惜眼前,活在當下,先至係最真。

    By Blogger Christina, at 1:34 午前  

  • 一個月前仲係沒事人一樣, now 大概只有4星期. So acute? I feel very sorry for your 堂大佬. Health and happiness, 係有幾多錢都買唔到.....

    By Blogger Connie, at 3:32 午前  

  • 係架,真係好化學。

    星期一晚仲要去醫院探病。真係唔知可以講乜好。

    By Blogger Gloria, at 11:12 午前  

  • 所以呢,吃得落就吃了,
    想去便度負擔得到就去了...
    做人..考慮甘多无用既...
    開心健康最梗要.

    By Blogger 阿二, at 11:21 午前  

  • Really sorry to hear that. It will be a torture for your cousin again. Not much can be done under the circumstance but sometimes just being there as a support would help. Guess the important thing now is hoping that the patient doesn't 'suffer' as much.

    By Blogger Annie, at 12:58 午後  

  • "想去便度負擔得到就去了..." That's why I am planning to go to Korea again in Dec to watch Rain's concert....

    By Blogger Connie, at 1:15 午後  

  • 12月唔係香港開嗎?

    By Blogger Gloria, at 1:25 午後  

  • 早排講o左話出年1,2月至o黎香港開。

    By Blogger Christina, at 10:23 午後  

  • They keep changing the dates. The only confirmed dates are Dec 15, 16 in Seoul, Dec 24 in LA and Jan 27 in Singapore.

    By Blogger Connie, at 12:07 午前  

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