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如果只剩下4星期....
生命中所有既野都會突然變得好重要:未完成既事情,未兌現既承諾,一直想去而未去既地方。
以為自己仍然有時間,以為會有好多個“日後”,結果原來剩下既時間咁少,想做既野仲有咁多。
講既唔係仔仔「深情密碼」既情節,而係早兩日剛由溫哥華返黎醫病既五嬸。
末期肺癌。已經連CT Scan都唔須要照,化療亦都唔會做。個肺抽左兩公升血水出黎,比佢返屋企home leave;下星期返黎再要抽多一litre。加拿大既醫生話,大概只有4星期;要好樂觀至會有機會挨到半年。
一個月前,佢仲係一個沒事人一樣,約左梁師奶去「聘珍樓」飲茶......
梁師奶今朝去左港安醫院探五嬸,佢本人只係默默流眼淚,尚算平靜。反而我堂大佬喊到出唔到聲.....其實佢兩年內經歷老婆同自己阿媽相繼患癌,望住親人受苦而自己無論有幾多錢一d都幫唔到,我好明白佢要再次go through呢段艱難日子既感受。
想做既野,真係唔好等。
活在當下,共勉之。
如果只剩下4星期....
生命中所有既野都會突然變得好重要:未完成既事情,未兌現既承諾,一直想去而未去既地方。
以為自己仍然有時間,以為會有好多個“日後”,結果原來剩下既時間咁少,想做既野仲有咁多。
講既唔係仔仔「深情密碼」既情節,而係早兩日剛由溫哥華返黎醫病既五嬸。
末期肺癌。已經連CT Scan都唔須要照,化療亦都唔會做。個肺抽左兩公升血水出黎,比佢返屋企home leave;下星期返黎再要抽多一litre。加拿大既醫生話,大概只有4星期;要好樂觀至會有機會挨到半年。
一個月前,佢仲係一個沒事人一樣,約左梁師奶去「聘珍樓」飲茶......
梁師奶今朝去左港安醫院探五嬸,佢本人只係默默流眼淚,尚算平靜。反而我堂大佬喊到出唔到聲.....其實佢兩年內經歷老婆同自己阿媽相繼患癌,望住親人受苦而自己無論有幾多錢一d都幫唔到,我好明白佢要再次go through呢段艱難日子既感受。
想做既野,真係唔好等。
活在當下,共勉之。
11 Comments:
your cousin lost his wife and now his mom...omg~~~~
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By Salad, at 12:12 午前
生死有命,富貴由天...
只有睇開d
By nonoprincess, at 12:56 午前
有o的o野確係有幾多錢都買唔到o架!珍惜眼前,活在當下,先至係最真。
By Christina, at 1:34 午前
一個月前仲係沒事人一樣, now 大概只有4星期. So acute? I feel very sorry for your 堂大佬. Health and happiness, 係有幾多錢都買唔到.....
By Connie, at 3:32 午前
係架,真係好化學。
星期一晚仲要去醫院探病。真係唔知可以講乜好。
By Gloria, at 11:12 午前
所以呢,吃得落就吃了,
想去便度負擔得到就去了...
做人..考慮甘多无用既...
開心健康最梗要.
By 阿二, at 11:21 午前
Really sorry to hear that. It will be a torture for your cousin again. Not much can be done under the circumstance but sometimes just being there as a support would help. Guess the important thing now is hoping that the patient doesn't 'suffer' as much.
By Annie, at 12:58 午後
"想去便度負擔得到就去了..." That's why I am planning to go to Korea again in Dec to watch Rain's concert....
By Connie, at 1:15 午後
12月唔係香港開嗎?
By Gloria, at 1:25 午後
早排講o左話出年1,2月至o黎香港開。
By Christina, at 10:23 午後
They keep changing the dates. The only confirmed dates are Dec 15, 16 in Seoul, Dec 24 in LA and Jan 27 in Singapore.
By Connie, at 12:07 午前
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